WORLD FAMOUS BREAK-THROUGH INDIVIDUALS WHO FAILED BEFORE THEY GAINED SUCCESS

FAMOUS FAILURES : ARE YOU AFRAID TO FAIL? 

Do you have challenges in achieving your your goal? 
Have been written off by others that you will amount to no good?
Are you under pressure to prove your worth, or get approval from people around you?

Don't be despaired, before you there has been great men and women who had suffered more, and has faced difficulty even from their childhood. 

ALBERT EINSTEIN:   


He wasn't able to speak until he was 4-years old
and his teachers said "he would never amount to much". Today you know his story.















Micheal Jordan:

After being cut from his high school basketball team,
he went home, locked himself in his room and cried. 

Today he is Celebrated worldwide.
















Walt Disney: 


Fired from a newspaper for " lacking  imagination" and "having no original ideas"
Today you know about "Disney Land"











STEVE JOBS:


At 30-years old he was left devastated and depressed after being unceremoniously removed from the company he started.








OPRAH WINFREY: 

Was demoted from her job as a news anchor, because she "wasn't fit for television"









THE BEATLES: 

Rejected by Decca recording studios who said " we don't like their sounds, they have no future in show business.










If this people after their short-comings became world renown celebrities , then you too can make it and be famous.

" if you see failure as a stepping stone to achieving greatness rather than a setback , then you will make success an ornament around your neck that all will see, and reckon with." (Thomas Chiedozie Williams)"

NIGERIAN MALE CELEBS ON TRADITIONAL ATTIRE

 CELEBS ROCK IN STYLE: PICK YOUR FAVORITE DESIGN 











dotun

Olamide and Dotun

Meet the Celebs in their native attires

Olamide

Don Jazzy


Timaya-Agbari papa 1

Timaya

Wizkid

WHO DOES IT BETTER? CHOOSE YOUR OUTFIT 







Buhari is now a Celeb. 

Pato 


Hakeem
Don JazZy






POPULAR HEADLINES: EXCLUSIVE: Aisha Buhari writes Fayose, spits fire

EXCLUSIVE: Aisha Buhari writes Fayose, spits fire





The Wife of the President, Aisha Buhari on Wednesday demanded a full retraction of a widely-circulated material distributed by Ekiti State governor, Ayo Fayose, in which he claimed to have uncovered how Mrs. Buhari was allegedly mentioned as having transferred funds to a convicted former U.S. lawmaker, Williams Jefferson. 
In a warning letter dispatched through her legal representatives,  Mrs. Buhari said Mr. Fayose’s action was directly responsible for the publication of the “very wild and unfounded” allegations in the media. 
A copy of the letter, sent to Mr. Fayose via courier on Wednesday.
read more on PREMIUM TIMES.

POPULAR HEAD LINES: Ex-beauty queen bags one year in jail ‘for insulting president’

A Turkish court Tuesday found a former Miss Turkey beauty queen guilty of insulting President Recep Tayyip Erdogan on social media, handing her a suspended sentence of over one year in jail. 



The Istanbul court sentenced model Merve Buyuksarac, 27, to one year and two months in prison for “publicly insulting” Erdogan in a satirical poem she posted on her Instagram account, the Dogan news agency reported.

Read more at: VANGUARD

POPULAR HEADLINES: Arms Deal: I’m being prosecuted for old grievances, says Dasuki

ARMS DEAL : DASUKI

By: Kingsley Omonobi 


Former National Security Adviser, Col. Sambo Dasuki,rtd


Former National Security Adviser (NSA) Colonel Mohammed Sambo Dasuki (rtd) has told a Federal High court in Abuja that he is being punished by some persons at the highest level of power in the country for perceived grievances held against him while in active military service many years ago

Read more at: VANGUARD 

GENERAL ELECTRIC VICE CHAIR GIVES LEADERSHIP TIPS

General Electric Vice Chair Beth Comstock Shares Her Leadership Tips



Beth Comstock, vice chair of GE, is the latest executive featured in The New York Times “Corner Office” column. In the following excerpt from the interview, she shares about her leadership style and tips for the Class of 2016.

A large part of your job is to drive innovation. What’s your best tip?


It really comes down to this thought: Permission granted. Having seen so many change situations in my career, change often starts with ourselves. Every company has people who don’t want to change the way things have been done.

But often people are looking for an alibi to not try something new. And maybe people themselves aren’t willing to do what’s required to make the change. So the message I try to convey is, you have the permission to try something new.

Another way to think of it is: don’t wait for the invitation. There are a lot of opportunities to grab. If you see a better way, you have an obligation to do it.

How do you hire?


I’m big these days on the quality of being able to figure things out. So if I’m interviewing someone, I like to understand their method for doing that. If I’m bringing them into a centralised role, they have to be able to navigate the company. There is no rule book for that, and they have to figure it out. They’ve got to connect with people inside the business, and with customers.

So I’ll usually test people on that. Give me an example where you didn’t have any rules, and what did you do? I’ll ask people how they solve their toughest problems. What was the toughest situation they ever encountered, and how did they deal with it?


What is your advice to new college grads?


I usually tell them their first job doesn’t determine their life. People often put too much pressure on that first job. Just try things out. Sometimes the seemingly worst assignments can be your best. What are you going to bring to it? What are you going to learn from it?

Read the full interview in The New York Times. 

Beth Comstock is Vice Chair of GE. 

DECEPTION: SEE APC LEADERS EATING CORN ON THE ROAD





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OFFICE POLITICS: HOW TO BE IN THE GAME

BE A WINNER IN OFFICE POLITICS





Now that we have come to understand office politics, the question ism, how do we get involve in the game?

There are several habits involving office politics, it's important you get familiar with them to be able to win in the game.
"Office politics – a taboo word for some people. It’s a pervasive thing at the workplace. In it’s simplest form, office politics is simply about the differences between people at work; differences in opinions, conflicts of interests are often manifested as office politics. It all goes down to human communications and relationships.
There is no need to be afraid of office politics. Top performers are those who have mastered the art of winning in office politics:" QUOTE: LIFEHACK.

 

EXCERPT:


BE AWARE YOU HAVE A CHOICE


The most common reactions to politics at work are either fight or flight. It’s normal human reaction for survival in the wild, back in the prehistoric days when we were still hunter-gatherers. Sure, the office is a modern jungle, but it takes more than just instinctive reactions to win in office politics. Instinctive fight reactions will only cause more resistance to whatever you are trying to achieve; while instinctive flight reactions only label you as a pushover that people can easily take for granted. Neither options are appealing for healthy career growth.

Winning requires you to consciously choose your reactions to the situation. Recognize that no matter how bad the circumstances, you have a choice in choosing how you feel and react. So how do you choose? This bring us to the next point…

Re-Map the Organization Chart


Office Politics often circumvent the formal organization chart. Sit back and watch for a while and then re-map the organization chart in terms of political power.

Who are the real influencers?
Who has authority but doesn't exercise it?
Who is respected?
Who champions or mentors others?
Who is "the brains behind the organization"?



Build Relationships


Now that you know how the existing relationships work, you need to build your own social network accordingly.

Do not be afraid of politically powerful people in the organization. Get to know them.
Ensure you have relationships that cross the formal hierarchy in all directions (peers, bosses, executives).
Start to build relationships with those who have the informal power.
Build your relationships on trust and respect – avoid empty flattery.
Be friendly with everyone but don't align yourself with one group or another.
Be a part of multiple networks – this way you can keep your finger on the pulse of the organization.

KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TRYING TO ACHIEVE


When conflicts happens, it’s very easy to be sucked into tunnel-vision and focus on immediate differences. That’s a self-defeating approach. Chances are you’ll only invite more resistance by focusing on differences in people’s positions or opinions.

The way to mitigate this without looking like you’re fighting to emerge as a winner in this conflict is to focus on the business objectives. In the light of what’s best for the business, discuss the pros and cons of each option. Eventually, everyone wants the business to be successful; if the business don’t win, then nobody in the organization wins. It’s much easier for one to eat the humble pie and back off when they realize the chosen approach is best for the business.

By learning to steer the discussion in this direction, you will learn to disengage from petty differences and position yourself as someone who is interested in getting things done. Your boss will also come to appreciate you as someone who is mature, strategic and can be entrusted with bigger responsibilities.

Govern Your Own Behavior



Through observation you'll learn what works in your organization's culture and what doesn't. Watch other people at work and identify successful behaviors that you can model. There are also some general standards to observe that will stop negative politics from spreading.

Don't pass on gossip, questionable judgments, spread rumors – when you hear something, take a day to consider how much credibility it has.
Rise above interpersonal conflicts – do not get sucked into arguments.
Maintain your integrity at all times – always remain professional, and always remember the organization's interests.
Be positive – avoid whining and complaining.
Be confident and assertive but not aggressive.
When voicing objections or criticism, make sure you take an organizational perspective not a personal one.
Don't rely on confidentiality – assume things will be disclosed and so decide what you should reveal accordingly.
Be a model of integrity to your team, and discourage politics within it.

DON’T TAKE SIDES


In office politics, it is possible to find yourself stuck in between two power figures who are at odds with each other. You find yourself being thrown around while they try to outwit each other and defend their own position. All at the expense of you getting the job done. You can’t get them to agree on a common decision for a project, and neither of them want to take ownership of issues; they’re too afraid they’ll get stabbed in the back for any mishaps.

In cases like this, focus on the business objectives and don’t take side with either of them – even if you like one better than the other. Place them on a common communication platform and ensure open communications among all parties so that no one can claim “I didn’t say that”.

By not taking sides, you’ll help to direct conflict resolution in an objective manner. You’ll also build trust with both parties. That’ll help to keep the engagements constructive and focus on business objectives.

Understand the Informal Network


Once you know who's who in the organization, you have a good idea of where the power and influence lay. Now you have to understand the social networks.

Who gets along with whom?
Are there groups or cliques that have formed?
Who is involved in interpersonal conflict?
Who has the most trouble getting along with others?
What is the basis for the interrelationship? Friendship, respect, manipulation?
How does the influence flow between the parties?

KEY POINT: 

Learn to think in terms of “how can we both win out of this situation?” This requires that you first understand the other party’s perspective and what’s in it for him. Next, understand what’s in it for you. Strive to seek out a resolution that is acceptable and beneficial to both parties. Doing this will ensure that everyone truly commit to the agree resolution and not pay only lip-service to it.


Positive or negative – politics happens. The philosopher Plato said, "One of the penalties for refusing to participate in politics is that you end up being governed by your inferiors." And this hold true today in the workplace: If you don't participate in the political game, you risk not having a say in what happens and allowing people with less experience, skill or knowledge to influence the decisions being made around you.

Office Politics are a fact of life. Wise politicking will help you get what you want in the world of work without compromising others in the process. Learn to use its power positively while diffusing the efforts of those who abuse it.


A LETTER TO MY PERSONALITIES



By: Edima Columbus 


Dear my other self,


I will make you a cup of coffee to open your eyes in the right way,I know you love FROZEN because we watched it 12-times may be you are hoping for a fairy tale too, and if our DVD breaks today you should have got a VCR because have never got a blueray true say.

I think you hate the smell of smoke because when I stare at you in the mirror you be begging me to stop,I don't drink as much as you so you get drunk then we go to the beach and play around the sand then I make you a heart pendant with a pebble held in my heart and I curve it like a necklace so the heart falls beyond our chestest.

Now a piece of us is a piece of the beach and it falls were it needs to be and rest peacefully but we just need to breath the pebble against our heart's now,may be an just in love with my self (s)when I stare at the mirror.

Warning Graphic Photos: HUSBAND AND WIFE DIED IN CAR CRASH

THE RECENT UBALAKA ACCIDENT BETWEEN A 911 TIPPER AND A HONDA PILOT JEEP CONSUMED THIS #HUSBAND_AND_HIS_PREGNANT_WIFE 

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Read the hurting story of a family friend 




"I was the Master of Ceremonies when Chiemela Ihemanma and his wife wedded some eight years ago in Umuahia.
They gave me that honor.
I have special love for the Ihemanma family.
When I had my accident in Abuja in 2003, they were there for me. Ezii Ezii Ihemanma and her elder sister Nwamara, together with Uche were very kind to me as I lay in the hospital.
Their parents Chief Sir and Lady Simeon Ihemanma have special love for me.
Their last son, Chikaodi Ihemanma, like me, had survived a terrible accident that almost claimed his life some few years back.
We thought it was over with accidents.

Then yesterday, tragedy struck!

A tragedy of inexplicable proportions.

Chiemela Ihemanma and his wife had gone to Aba from Umuahia to shop for for maternity stuff. The wife was heavy with a child. She was due in a few months.
Shopping over, they stood at the express way to take a bus back to Umuahia.
Then they saw a friend driving from PH and joined them to Umuahia.
On the way, a terrible accident happened.
All three of them died instantly. Crushed to death.
The friend who was driving, Chiemela and his pregnant wife.
They left three little kids behind.

How is one supposed to explain this?

My Fathers Day was spent in tears. I wept throughout the church service as I stared endlessly into the ceiling wondering what this life really means.

How could Chiemela, an extremely calm and good natured guy go this way?
Why would a young wife, heavy with child die such a tragic death?

The tears simply refuse to go. I wept like a little child today. I still weep.
I weep for Sir Ihemanma and his wife, Lady Vine. A wonderful couple who have spent their lives in public service and invested all they had to train their children. Now that they will relax in their old age and enjoy the company of their children and grand children, this kind of tragedy strikes them.
I weep for Uche, my brother, my friend, my classmate and colleague. Chiemela was his immediate elder brother.

How is one supposed to offer his sympathies in this kind of situation?

OFFICE POLITICS: UNDERSTANDING THE GAME

KNOWING THE RULES 



By: Thomas Chiedozie Williams.



We all have come to that point where we are stock in the middle, and some of our colleagues whom just got into the organization not quite long have made their way to the top level, while others get away with certain things, like first hand info, bonuses, always with the top notch of the organization, this people know how to maneuver their way into any position or office in the organization.

"Office politics" are the strategies that people play to gain advantage, personally or for a cause they support. The term often has a negative connotation, in that it refers to strategies people use to seek advantage at the expense of others or the greater good. In this context, it often adversely affects the working environment and relationships within it. Good "office politics", on the other hand, help you fairly promote yourself and your cause, and is more often called networking and stakeholder management.

It is a heart breaking scene to see people step on others to achieve their goal, and also to see someone you are better off being recommended by your superior when it's supposed to be you, because of the relationship they have with them.

The bottom line is Office politics is something  you must get yourself involve in other to survive in the game, those who play office politics, knows exactly how to get what they want and how to get on." Whether you hate it, admire it, practice it or avoid it, office politics is a fact of life in any organization. And, like it or not, it's something that you need to understand and master to be sure of your own success

Where i work i have witness a series of office politics taken place, some years ago a group of young vibrant men came into the organization, this individuals changed everything because they where smart, they knew the odds and what kinds of game needed to be played, gained the trust of the CEO, this young individuals overthrew the current big shots and decision makers, brought in their own team, people who speak the same language with them,(people they are familiar with and trust) the older crew decided to form a team and watch, few years latter the table turned. i tagged this event as the Game of Thrones, where everyone is fighting to rule and remain on top.

In this kind of scenario you must be careful so you remain on the winning team you don't want to loose to both sides you must learn to maneuver your way through both teams, and influential individuals.

Understanding the kind of politics being played in your organization and knowing how to participate is key.




"Perhaps due to the negative connotation, many people see office politics as something very much to be avoided. But the truth is, to ensure your own success and that of your projects, you must navigate the minefield of Office Politics. If you deny the 'bad politics' that may be going on around you, and avoid dealing with them, you may needlessly suffer whilst others take unfair advantage. And if you avoid practising 'good politics', you miss the opportunities to properly further your own interests, and those of your team and your cause" (Quote: mindtools )
To deal effectively with office politics and use it yourself in a positive way, you must first accept the reality of it. Once you've done this, you then need to develop strategies to deal with the political behavior that is going on around you. The best way to do this is to be a good observer and then use the information you gather to build yourself a strong network to operate in.

Wizkid weds Linda Ikeji

3 interesting things that could happen if they got married



What would probably happen if Wizzy and Linda should drop their pride and egos and let's just say…. Tie the knot!?

Wizkid and Linda Ikeji have been at each other's throat more than twice in recent years and the results have more likely been NEGATIVE. But what would happen if these two amazingly talented and successful Nigerian celebrities should drop their pride and egos and let's just say…. Tie the knot!?



read more Pulse 

DANCE HALL MUSIC KING : KETCHUP NOMINATED FOR NEA AWARDS 2016 VOTE FOR KETCHUP

The PAM PAM king Ketchup has been nominated for the Nigeria Entertainment Awards (NEA) 2016

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WEDDING DIGEST: A ROMANTIC AND FAIRY TALE UNION

MEET: OLOWOYEYE FUNMILOLA TAIWO AND MARVIN OLAKUNLE WHO ARE NOW MR & MRS MARVIN OLAKUNLE 


at the traditional marriage


When i came across this couple i was stunned by their appearance, what caught my attention was how beautiful they looked, they were like two fairy tale creatures in an African scene, they looked so angelic and you can see the connection between them.
I got curious and wanted to know the kind of fire that burned within them, so i interviewed the beautiful bride.


Where did you meet?


I met my husband at school in our first year.

So you fell in love immediately? 


two love birds Funmi & Kunle Mr & Mrs

Yes, it was love at first sight.

Have you been together all this years?


No, we lost communication after a while.

Why?


Because he traveled out of the country.


How did you meet again?


3-Years latter he came back, love found it's way back to us, and now we said, "I DO".

My curiosity led me on to ask who adorned them with such beautiful attire and makeovers
i got to find out it was OlORILOOKS as the saiying goes behind every beautiful painting there is an artist.

OLORILOOKS:


MEET OLORI OSOKOYA: THE MAKEOVER ARTIST.


BIO: I see makeup as a way to have fun and express myself. I love all the different colors and looks you can do with makeup, i have always had the passion for it, i love to beautify and make people look good. 

Olorilooks makeover






Ololri and Bride 




PHOTO GALLERY OF THE TRADITIONAL WEDDING 

AFTER THE MAKEOVER

THE BEAUTIFUL BRIDE
DANCING 

THE COUPLE


BRIDE WITH PARENTS

BEING UNVEILED
RECEIVING PARENTAL BLESSINGS
BEFORE THE UNVEILING 


I Present to you: Mr and Mrs Marvin Olakunle