MY WEDDING NIGHT

A TALE OF LOVE AND BETRAYAL
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Episode 1

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Story Narrated by Belinda,
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Good evening friends, my name is Belinda, & what I give you guys is the story of my life. A story of pain, love & sadness. A story of lost hope, betrayal & death. A true-life event that turned my life upside down.
Where do I start?.
I guess I have to start from the major episode, the night that changed my whole life.

"MY WEDDING NIGHT"
I write with Tears
____ The dim light of the room was enough to highlight Damian’s body lying under the covers of our bed. His long frame was silhouetted delicately as the sheet & blanket draped over his naked body. Every muscle of his slender frame was showing through the somewhat thin fabric he placed
over himself as I walked slowly and purposeful towards him, on getting close he grabbed me tenderly, cuddling me into his warm embrace as we coupled together.
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Episode 2

The slide of his softness on my wet sensitive walls was so

tantalizing. It was a feeling that I
could never describe. I intertwined my hand into his, held it & closed my eyes while his heartbeat pounded a rhythm against my body.
Falling asleep, I prayed for our love to forever be strong, but unfortunately, I woke up the
following morning to see a knife buried in his chest. Our bed
sheet soaked with blood.
I couldn't believe my eyes, I couldn't believe it was all real. I held my dead husband & looked
around.
"No! this can't be happening" I breathed, trying hard to control myself. But it was all real,
Damian was cold and still. He was dead for real.
"Nooo"!!!! I sobbed quietly, wondering what to do, wondering the next step to take.
There was any doubt, I was about experiencing a very terrible twist in my life. Damian was definitely murdered by someone who was so desperate to destroy my happiness. I sat down on the floor while my mind flashed back to how I met my husband.
After NYSC, early the previous year. I came to Abuja to live with my elder brother who was a
doctor in one of the city hospitals. He had no problem getting me a good job in a very popular
construction company inside the city. Seriously I counted myself as a very lucky girl because I was the first to get a job among all my
classmates & friends. I started work in Damian's office as a secretary & that was when my life took a dramatic turn. Damian who was my boss, a white & an American citizen quickly took interest in me. He was so sweet & caring but equally a womanizer. Everyone warned me to be careful. My colleagues advised me to be professional when dealing with him and never give into his demands, which I obeyed. But surprisingly he continued disturbing me, even after turning him down so many times. The more I turned him away, the bolder he got.
This continued until I finally gave into him. We had a very sweet relationship that soon became the talk of the town. As our relationship progressed, I starting getting threats from his old girlfriends both in Nigeria & abroad, but it never stopped me from giving up on him.
Three months into the relationship, he proposed to me & met my people, drawing another shock from everyone, especially the white community.
Our marriage was quickly fixed & I insisted for it to be done in Nigeria because of my family &
friends which he accepted without hesitation. Damian's mother, family members & friends arrived the country two days to our wedding. I had a very long talk with his mum & cousins who all tried to be nice to me even though the resentment on their faces were noticeable.
The church wedding and reception went very well. Damian really spared no cost in organizing
the whole show. We planned traveling to Dubai the next day for our honeymoon, which made us spend our first night as husband and wife in his big house where almost all his family members & friends slept.
Anyone of them could have crept into the room as we slept & struck him, but there wasn't any
doubt I would be the major suspect....
"Oh no," I wailed with a loud voice, drawing the attention of everyone in the house. Within minutes, almost every member of the white community was in Damian's house.

Episode 3 next

A TIME FOR SOBER REFLECTION

READ, LEARN and PASS ON to others!

The man with the Axe

Once upon a time, a very strong woodcutter asked for a job in a timber merchant and he got it. The pay was really good and so was the work condition. For those reasons, the woodcutter was determined to do his best.

His boss gave him an axe and showed him the area where he was supposed to work.

The first day, the woodcutter brought 18 trees.

“Congratulations,” the boss said. “Go on that way!”

Very motivated by the boss words, the woodcutter tried harder the next day, but he could only bring 15 trees. The third day he tried even harder, but he could only bring 10 trees. Day after day he was bringing fewer and fewer trees.

“I must be losing my strength”, the woodcutter thought. He went to the boss and apologized, saying that he could not understand what was going on.

“When was the last time you sharpened your axe?” the boss asked.

“Sharpen? I had no time to sharpen my axe. I have been very busy trying to cut trees…”
Reflection:

Our lives are like that. We sometimes get so busy that we don’t take the time to sharpen the “axe”. In today’s world, it seems that everyone is busier than ever but less happy than ever.

Why is that? Could it be that we have forgotten how to stay “sharp”? There’s nothing wrong with activity and hard work. But we should not get so busy that we neglect the truly important things in life, like our personal life, taking the time to get close to our Creator, giving more time for our family, taking a time to read etc.

We all need time to relax, to think and meditate, to learn and grow. If we don’t take the time to sharpen the “axe”, we will become dull and lose our effectiveness.

FINDING LOVE ON SOCIAL MEDIA

About finding a partner on social media

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You can meet people anywhere and start anything with them. It is not a function of where you met them, but a function of who they really are. 
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There are good people and there are bad people. We find them in churches, bus stations, workplaces, clubs, and social media.
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. I know people who got married to someone they met even via 2go. Yet, I know a lot of people who have gotten it wrong with people they met on a professional site like LinkedIn.
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Whether you are meeting someone online or offline and there is a relationship in the card, what you need to focus on is the value proposition.
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What is the end game? Are you guys trying to just have fun or you are taking it seriously. Knowing the end game helps you know the right questions to ask. 
The right places to meet. 
The right things to look out for. 
The right issues to address.
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What value does this person bring apart from their social media appeal? You need to know that the experience you get on social media cannot be compared to what you get with a physical connection. A lot of people are putting on their best face and trying to be on their best behavior here. 
Even if some are only showing an aspect of their life that is very appealing, it doesn't mean that everything about them is so pleasant. You have to do your due diligence; find out about their family, and their friends.
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Lastly, sex is a currency. If you can't afford it, don't spend it.
I make bold to say 90% of online relationships that did not go well was because of the presence of sex or lack of it. If you are venturing into an online relationship, make sure you take sex out of the equation until the time is right.
If you want to have sex, by all means, make sure you are doing it with the full understanding of the risks involved.
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If you like meeting people everywhere else, offer value, and you will get value. If you know what you are really looking for, you will not have a hard time getting it.
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So if you meet someone on Facebook, and you do not have any value proposition, you will lose them via YouTube. 

A BIG CAT TRANSFORMED INTO A WOMAN

A WITCH CAUGHT IN DAY LIGHT

somewhere in Agip Aguda Coka Area Lagow state at about 9:am yesterday.

A cat Transformed into an old woman after it was beating with a stick. 

See Video below.

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BE ORIGINAL

Look original Ladies,
Real men don't care about your make-up, what a man really want to know is if the woman behind the mask will be capable of managing him.

Are you a Lady who cares much about your outward beauty and is full of emptiness inside or you are a Lady who puts more effort in becoming a woman of potential that can manage a man's home.

When those make-up wash off, what will be left of u?

Remember time will tell, and u are gonna fade away gradually, that you won't be aware of it, till you are nothing but a monument of your old self.

#Loveme #bewise

Eddywillstrend.

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