I SELDOM WONDER WHY SINGLE LADIES GO AFTER MARRIED MEN
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If women’s most cliché complaint about dating men is that they resist settling down, it figures that we’d be attracted to someone who has signed up for a legally binding romance. "He has a demonstrated capacity for commitment," says Terri Orbuch, Ph.D., relationship expert and author of Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship.
Of course, there's a big problem here: If he’s willing to cheat with you, there's no guarantee that he won't cheat on you, too.
Like everything in life, the main reason women are attracted to married can be boiled down to the simplest of human emotions; jealousy. The grass always looks greener on the other side, the food on
someone else’s plate always looks better than what you have and someone else’s man always looks better than a single guy. The rationale behind that seems to be, if someone wants him, he must have something worth wanting. The University of Louisville, Kentucky conducted research that showed a trend among women they called, mate copying, which states that women are more attracted to a man when their peers show approval and/or attraction. Another showed 90% of single women polled were interested in a man who they believed was taken, while only 59% wanted him when told he was single
Some women get a feeling of power and a boost in self-esteem when they sleep with a married man. These types of women feel that if they can take another woman’s husband away from her, she is pretty and desirable. Stealing a man’s affection from his wife is a power trip to these gals. What they often fail to understand is men rarely leave their wives and if they do, all they have won is a cheater.
There are many types of women who date married men. Some even do it by accident, or at least by no fault of their own. Believe it or not, there are many unscrupulous married men who lie to single women about their wives and families. They slip their wedding rings off so often, there isn’t any hair on their ring fingers. Sadly, sometimes single girls fall for these wise guys and are head over heels in love before they find out he’s a married man.
someone else’s plate always looks better than what you have and someone else’s man always looks better than a single guy. The rationale behind that seems to be, if someone wants him, he must have something worth wanting. The University of Louisville, Kentucky conducted research that showed a trend among women they called, mate copying, which states that women are more attracted to a man when their peers show approval and/or attraction. Another showed 90% of single women polled were interested in a man who they believed was taken, while only 59% wanted him when told he was single
Dating Married Men Actually Increases A Woman’s Self-esteem
Some women get a feeling of power and a boost in self-esteem when they sleep with a married man. These types of women feel that if they can take another woman’s husband away from her, she is pretty and desirable. Stealing a man’s affection from his wife is a power trip to these gals. What they often fail to understand is men rarely leave their wives and if they do, all they have won is a cheater.Dating A Married Man Is Easier
Another reason is some women are just lazy in a relationship. Perhaps she is focused on her career or maybe she is attending college and concentrates all her attention on her education. Dating a married man is far less demanding than dating another single or having a live-in relationship. There are only so many demands a married man can make of his mistress and that is the kind of relationship she is after. Maybe she’s been burned too many times or maybe she just isn’t ready to settle down. Whatever the case, this type of woman dates married men because they are largely unavailable and she likes it that way.A Married Man Is Often More Financially Secure
Sometimes women go after married men because they believe them to be more financially secure, emotionally stable and experienced than single men. The general consensus among these gals is that if he can take care of an entire family and keep a wife happy, he’s the kind of guy she wants. In fact, he is the guy she wants. She doesn’t have to take her chances with a single guy who is just getting his life together. Who knows how he might turn out? This guy over here is already rocking that life. The proof is in the pudding, so to speak.Check Your Morals At The Door
Finally, some women are just immoral. They don’t care about the sanctity of marriage. They don’t care how many children are at home. Her objective is to win this man at any cost. Sex is her greatest weapon and she will use it for all its worth. These women are the most sexually adventurous of all the women who date married men. They are often willing to perform sexual actions that he can’t get his wife to do. She is bold and confident, both of which are attractive to men, especially those in a long term relationship that has gone bad. These are also the most unpredictable of the women who date married men. Don’t be surprised if she threatens to call your wife during the first big fight you have or sends you illicit text messages exactly when you told her not to. Look out for her. She’s in it to win it. That doesn’t mean she will stick around, though. After winning her prize, she may go off in search of the next battle.There are many types of women who date married men. Some even do it by accident, or at least by no fault of their own. Believe it or not, there are many unscrupulous married men who lie to single women about their wives and families. They slip their wedding rings off so often, there isn’t any hair on their ring fingers. Sadly, sometimes single girls fall for these wise guys and are head over heels in love before they find out he’s a married man.
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